Personal Finance

Financial tips when getting re-married

The most recent information I could find on the divorce rate in Canada comes from the Employment and Social Development Canada web page and it was dated 2008. According to this source, 41% of marriages will end in divorce but the national average fluctuates between 35% and 42%. The average age of males getting divorced is 44 and that of females is 42. With just under 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it is important that you are aware of things you need to do or look at when reviewing your financial plan after your divorce and before you get re-married.

Review the wills

Getting divorced doesn’t revoke your will. Update your will at any point in your life when there are significant changes in your situation. Update your will when you get divorced, update your will when you remarry, update your will when you have children. When getting remarried, there might be children from your first marriage that you want to protect so an updated will can make sure your wishes are met and they are looked after.

Related article: How often should you review your estate plan?

Prenuptial agreement contracts

A Prenuptial Agreement is an American term. In Canada, they are more commonly referred to as Domestic Contracts (However, I will use PRENUP as a catch-all term for this article). People often head into second marriages with investments, businesses, homes, properties, and other things so a properly drawn prenuptial agreement or a domestic contract should be in order.

A prenup is to protect what you have accumulated and have grown while you were on your own. A prenup is not saying that you won’t share your successes going forward with your new spouse but that you want to protect what you have acquired on your own. This also applies to people who are getting married for the first time. With people getting married for the first time at an older age, they too have accumulated wealth through homeownership, investments or business. Consult a Lawyer to discuss your specific situation.

Review your beneficiary designations

Update your beneficiaries on all of the products you own. Maybe you will need to change the appointment on things like Life Insurance, Pension Plans or RRSPs. Upon a review, you may also find that you do not need to change anything. Review them and make sure the appointments meet your objectives. Don’t push the meeting aside and say that you will get to them later. Later may not come. Call your advisor to set up a meeting to review all of your beneficiary designations. Discuss all potential scenarios to prevent any surprises at your death.

Related article: Different types of beneficiary designations

Other considerations

Other things to discuss are bank accounts. Will they be joint or owned individually? Financial goals and aspirations. Is your new spouse more of a saver or a spender? Are you more of a saver or spender? If there is a significant difference in age, long term care planning is essential. Who is going to look after whom? How? Where?

As mentioned earlier, with all significant changes in one’s life, the complete planning process should be revisited. Upon a marriage breakdown and then an upcoming remarriage, it is very important to have these discussions because there can be a lot on the line if you pass away or the second marriage fails.



    All good and valid things to consider if you are going to re-marry.
    However things are not the same all over Canada – Quebec likes to be different. When I got divorced in 1990 I asked my lawyer, a woman, how I could avoid all of the trials and tribulations of divorce. She quite frankly told me “don’t get married again”. This is because, in Quebec, you are either married or you are not. There is no common law marriage provisions as Quebec is governed under civil law. Remember the fairly recent trial that went all the way to the Supreme court of Canada where the plaintif wanted more than child support from her former beau (rumoured to be the owner of Cirque Du Soleil – the guy that went up to the space station). Well, he won. He just pays child support. Mind you that is more over the years than the majority of working class will earn in a lifetime. So don’t shed too many tears for her, o rthe children. He never contested the child support. She just wanted more.
    So ladies, if you are in Quebec, you better understand what you are getting in to if you are not legally married. You will have a right to anything that has you name on it. OH! The house was only in his name? Too bad, you just paid rent.
    That does not mean that he gets off scott free. He is obliged to support any children and any property acquired durng your time together must be taken in to consideration. Just make sure that you co-sign for things like houses, land, etc, etc. Your signature has never meant more – if you divorce.

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